Situations and emotions...

I have this friend who's been thinking about one of our friends and that friend is really depressed about it and my friends and I are trying to help her. We are trying to understand her. This one friend and I took to taking a dictionary, turning it spine-down, and relax and let our fingers and minds flow with the dictionary and we'll usually find words that are related to that situation. It's really cool. Like a ouija board, but not really occult, demonic, or satanic.